Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 11, 2016 13:34:02:
I'm gonna email you the video for the apartment! I was trying to take it quickly because I only had 1% on my phone! But you can see how it looks!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 11, 2016 13:56:05:
I'm happy you're coming over tonight! Is there any other kind of food you'd like?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 11, 2016 14:07:20:
Just you!!! I love your company. I'll probably be over there early. Kinda struggling a bit today.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 11, 2016 14:17:37:
Can I come by as early as 5pm?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 11, 2016 14:18:14:
Yes! ��
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 11, 2016 16:59:47:
On my way over
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 11, 2016 17:13:25:
I was just about to text you!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 11, 2016 21:07:35:
I miss you already. Thanks for the food and company. I get to see you tomorrow!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 11, 2016 21:10:00:
For your humor
[Explicit image redacted] A dimly lit, close-up photo of a person's lap area, partially covered by a white fringed blanket, with exposed genitalia.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 11, 2016 21:10:43:
Also, I did cry during the movie. I hope that you noticed.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 11, 2016 21:14:55:
Hahaha! That's funny!
I miss you too. Thanks for eating with me! ��
I'm glad you were able to do that with me! I thought that you might be at a few times from your chest movements. I didn't want to look though because I didn't want to scare your tears away.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 11, 2016 21:36:17:
I wish that you'd seen me cry. It would be so nice and intimate. I really want to share that with you.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 11, 2016 21:37:36:
Aww, I was more concerned with you being able to let your tears come freely than my being able to witness it! But next time I will look at you if you want me to see it! ��
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 11, 2016 22:22:47:
Goodnight my love!! ������
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 11, 2016 22:24:31:
Goodnight
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 11, 2016 22:25:57:
I'm watching Jane the Virgin and Rafael is holding their baby to his chest without a shirt on to increase the bonding! Made me think of you! You would do that too! ����
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 07:18:31:
Aw.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 09:07:09:
I'm working out! Two days in a row I'm hitting my morning workout. Though, I was a little late today and I'll be later to work than I'd hoped.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 09:15:24:
Great honey!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 09:15:46:
I'm glad you're getting back to it and I knew that you would because you take care of yourself!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 09:16:11:
I'm happy that you make your health a priority!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 09:16:31:
I'm going to workout today too!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 09:17:30:
I do for those that love me. Gotta be around and at my best to do my best in life.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 09:17:51:
I'm glad that you're going to work out and that you're eating better.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 09:20:32:
Yes, those that love you including you!!
Yep! Today I am planning to workout, do an online training, make an appointment for drug test, and see my counselor!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 09:21:17:
I hope to see you at some point tonight!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 09:21:37:
Yes, definitely. We will see each other tonight!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 12:25:20:
I just worked out. I'm about to gobble down sushi. Yum!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 12:37:30:
Yummy!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 12:44:38:
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 12:46:34:
Oh my!!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 12:46:40:
I want all of it!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 12:47:28:
Haha. You should've joined me!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 12:50:31:
Yes! Let's rewind 25 minutes!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 12:51:18:
Heh heh. ��
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 12:55:44:
I really want that! But I'm being healthy! I had my fruit yogurt again today: banana, strawberry, blueberry, and plain yogurt!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 13:02:02:
Well... good for you.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:03:24:
I've had that every day since I went to the grocery store on Thursday!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:03:45:
I haven't had any junk food, except for the pizza at Food Spark!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 13:04:52:
Look at you!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:28:21:
Have you heard anything about Friday of Solidarity on July 16th?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 13:28:47:
Nope. I've been out of the loop.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:29:58:
Anonymous is starting it in response to the murdering of black people by police
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 13:31:24:
Excellent.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:33:13:
Supposed to take place in St Louis by the arch!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:33:28:
But it's going to be nationwide supposedly if people turn up!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 13:33:38:
Cool, cool.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:52:33:
I made tuna salad with a whole avocado as a substitute for Mayo and it's so yummy!! Tuna, celery, avocado and olive oil with salt!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 13:52:49:
Mmmmm
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:56:25:
I had tuna yesterday too! You could probably smell it on my breath!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:56:35:
Probably had cat breath!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 13:56:57:
Nope. I was just thinking about how much I enjoy kissing you.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 13:57:10:
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I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 15:09:52:
What time do you want to play with me?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 12, 2016 15:10:12:
All the times!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 12, 2016 16:48:37:
Tried to call you and it didn't work....
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 10:49:37:
I support this healthy eating thing!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 10:50:33:
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Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 10:50:50:
Celery, mushroom, tomato, coconut oil, and eggs!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 11:06:36:
Awesome!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 12:25:03:
Weights went better today! How's your day going?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 12:37:37:
That's great love!!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 12:38:01:
Mine is getting a slow start, but it's going well!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 12:38:52:
You got it. Just getting in there is an accomplishment when you haven't been in the gym much. It all starts with going.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 13:20:45:
True!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 14:25:43:
What time are you free?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 14:26:28:
6pm!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 14:29:37:
Cool. Are you still up for going to that march?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 14:30:03:
Yeah! When and where?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 14:30:17:
It is downtown.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 14:31:20:
I'll probably eat dinner before then if that works. Were you wanting to have a sleepover tonight and possibly swim?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 14:31:47:
I can run home and pack stuff up for tomorrow.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 14:33:05:
Yes that sounds fun!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 14:34:29:
OK. Sounds good.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 14:38:04:
I'm gonna drink some water and coffee and then go to the gym!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 14:38:21:
You do it!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 15:36:24:
Storm is brewing!!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 15:36:36:
Yup
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 15:38:01:
I'm gonna do my workout at home! I ended up eating and doing some other stuff! I don't want to go to the gym in the storm!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 15:38:28:
Have fun!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 15:38:57:
It feels like night!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 15:39:15:
Yes! It's fun.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 15:41:13:
I just lost electricity!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 15:41:39:
Wow. I wish that I were there with you. That sounds fun!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 15:42:21:
It's a beautiful storm! I'd love if you were here too! But there will be more! ����
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 15:42:35:
Yup. True.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 16:35:22:
It's not a huge deal because we're not at that point, but it did make me feel uncomfortable when you were talking about your money and how you are going to decide what to do with it. It's absolutely fine that it's your money, however I never asked for it. I feel there's an assumption that I want your money and I don't like that. I will have a career and my own money too in the future and I could say the same thing to you: I worked for my money and I get to decide what to do with it. Say for instance if things go poorly for you and your broke and I have a stable income. I don't think you'd like it if we were together and I told you I'm the one working for it so it's my choice beyond living expenses what happens with the money. It's a slightly different scenario, but I hope you get the point. After seeing men hold money over women in my life, I'm very sensitive to it.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 16:36:49:
Just don't assume that I want your money and don't talk down to me about you doing what you want with what's yours.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 16:38:44:
In general I'm uncomfortable talking about money. But especially when it comes to men telling me about it in a certain way, it's upsetting to me.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 16:45:18:
What I'm saying is you can take whatever fat wad of cash you earn and shove it up your tush! :P
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 16:51:36:
I don't think you're after my money. I think that there is a big difference between what is done with money beyond what is needed to live. I don't believe it is my money because I don't think that way. I do believe that sharing financial resources with a person for me requires that they have the same level of dedication to the greater good and we have compatible philosophies on that. I would never, ever, ever, ever hold money over you or anyone else that I have a loving relationship with. Also, I'm not a man. And, I'm not Roger. And, I'm not here to answer for someone else's behavior. I appreciate you sharing what you did, though, but I just don't operate the way you are suggesting, and I'm sensitive to this as well.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 16:54:08:
Basically, I have no desire to make you a slave.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 17:03:44:
I'm glad that you don't have that desire. However, I still don't think we're seeing completely eye to eye. You brought up to me defensively that you alone would decide what to do with your expendable income in the future if we were together.
In that statement is an assumption that I want control over your expendable financial resources, or you wouldn't have brought it up.
It's upsetting to me because I did not once ask for your resources. And because I wouldn't and couldn't say the same thing to you. It's a reminder to me that I'm in a lower position and you feel the need to defensively protect yourself from the perception that I want what's yours. So yeah, it made me pretty uncomfortable at that moment and upset later.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 17:05:16:
We don't see eye to eye. Let's talk in person. I suspect that we're just misunderstanding each other.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 17:38:05:
I'm about to head home and grab stuff for tonight. Do you want me to just come by your place?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 17:40:53:
Yes!!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 17:58:51:
Would you want to see Ghost busters with me tomorrow?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 18:11:46:
I don't know anything about the new movie, but generally spending time with you is good!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 18:14:17:
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Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 13, 2016 18:14:21:
Are you on your way?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 13, 2016 18:25:00:
Just got in my car.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 10:07:51:
Want to make tacos?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 10:08:28:
Sure
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 11:14:25:
I have court today. Yay....
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 11:22:39:
Oh no!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 11:23:54:
I'm working out now, but I spent the hour before that prepping.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 11:24:42:
What is it about? Holding events at your place?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 11:24:56:
I bought matcha!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 11:25:09:
Yes.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 11:25:13:
Awesome!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 12:06:19:
Good luck today!! I'll be thinking of you!!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 12:36:06:
Do you want my matcha? I'm going to bring it to your house if somebody wants it! It's a little too sweet! I don't like that they put sugar in it!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 12:41:17:
They sweetened it? Ugh. Why?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 12:41:50:
I don't know! Probably to make it cheaper!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 12:42:00:
I don't need any sweetened matcha, personally.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 12:42:19:
Can I bring it and see if somebody else wants it?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 12:42:40:
Sure. I'm at the court now.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 12:43:04:
Okay honey! I love you! ����
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 13:25:08:
My motions were overruled, but the case was continued and the prosecution needs to get in touch with the inspector. They will have more weight the the next hearing.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 13:26:41:
Oh wow. What's your plan?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 13:30:56:
I mean, this isn't a bad outcome. It is just less speedy.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 13:31:14:
The prosecution has a fire under their ass now.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 13:31:53:
If they can't get in touch with the inspector, it will be difficult to even have a trial.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 13:34:44:
Okay! I hope they won't get in touch with that person!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:10:52:
Have you worked out yet?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:11:06:
By the way, my lunch ...
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:11:25:
Ahhhh
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:11:29:
I want that
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:11:46:
No, I'm gonna go now!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:11:58:
Do it now!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:12:11:
Powerful woman!!!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:12:28:
Phenomenal woman, that's me!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:13:43:
Also, and I don't care about this, but for the record, you were awesome when you were riding me last night.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:14:20:
In addition to showing support for black women, I really enjoy chanting in the streets!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:14:44:
I walked by that memorial today.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:15:10:
Is everything still there?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:15:17:
Yeah
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:18:45:
And to the other thing you mentioned, I kind of feel funny about that. I want us both to enjoy our intimacy and I'm glad that you liked it!! ����
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:19:26:
Why do you feel funny about it?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:23:13:
I think it's mostly that I'm not used to receiving praise for sexual performance! I know you don't really care about it and I'm glad. I don't really care much about that either, but I do have some insecurity around performance so I appreciate the compliment. At the same time I think the way forward is to not think about performance at all rather than start thinking that I do perform well. Know what I mean?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:24:38:
So that's why I feel a little funny receiving that compliment!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:25:04:
I think I also feel embarrassed/awkward about it!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:25:15:
I do, but I think it is more complicated. I really think that you taking more of a lead sometimes creates a more healthy relationship and I think it requires some confidence. And, wrong as it is, you will still feel pressure to be "good at it."
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:25:49:
So, while I truly don't care how "good" you are, I suspect that you'll care.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:26:26:
I certainly care about how "good" at it I am even though I know better.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:27:30:
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Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:27:47:
I get what you're saying!!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:29:13:
I'm kind of a chicken! If somebody calls attention to something I'm doing, even if it's a compliment, I feel embarrassed about it. But I will take more lead as I feel more comfortable with you!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:29:26:
Sounds good
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 14:30:44:
Now, go work out sexy, powerful woman!!!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:39:23:
Okay cutie! ����
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 14:46:32:
Even though this matcha is sweet, I'm in love with it! I get such a rush when I drink it!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:09:16:
I told my mom I went to protest last night and she got upset. She said that she wish I didn't get involved with an activist because they're dangerous people. I think she's just worried something bad will happen to me.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 15:28:14:
Your mom hates me now.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:28:21:
She knows how the protests are in Iran where everybody gets killed. In Iran revolution just means more of the same or worse, so I guess you could say she's jaded. Most moms probably fear for their kid's safety!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:28:31:
No she doesn't!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:29:11:
I probably shouldn't have told her I went though because I know she gets scared.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 15:29:13:
Yeah, but I'm the one getting you into it, so ....
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:29:46:
No I used to protest back at UCF, but they were campus protests...
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 15:30:39:
Gosh, I wonder what you'd be like with tear gas, pepper spray and rubber bullets.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 15:30:58:
What we've done has been benign.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:32:32:
I assured her that I'd be okay!!
Yeah, I mean I would probably be fine, but I haven't experienced that. I get aggressive in the face of physical aggression. If my adrenaline kicks in I would use it as fuel.
I'm at the gym now and it's completely empty!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:43:21:
All done with my workout! I just did a few deadlifts!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 15:44:06:
Cool, cool. You got in there.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:45:41:
Yes! I did 95 lbs on deadlift
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 15:46:06:
How's your back?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:46:06:
Next time I'll add on
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:46:29:
It's alright
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 15:46:36:
I'm not noticing it!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 16:10:28:
When should I come to your place?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 16:10:38:
Did you still want to make tacos?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 16:15:16:
Tacos are good. When will you be ready?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 16:22:51:
I'm free anytime!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 16:23:24:
I can come now or I can do a load of laundry and come in 1.5 hours
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 16:30:40:
I'm going to do laundry since I haven't heard from you and might as well get things done!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 16:31:00:
OK. Yeah.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 16:31:12:
I'm still at work, so that makes sense.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 16:31:24:
Okay honey
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 17:42:04:
I'm on my way home now.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 17:49:42:
Okay! I just put laundry in the dryer! So 45 minutes till it's done!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 17:50:27:
OK. So, you won't be over until 7ish then.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 17:51:51:
Yup! What time did you want to have dinner with everybody?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 17:52:49:
Um, well, 6:30-7:15.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 17:54:22:
Hmm
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 17:54:46:
It'll be fine. Just come when you're finished.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 17:55:04:
I'll get started cooking and planning.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 18:14:39:
Alright, sounds good! Sorry I can't be there sooner!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 18:15:04:
No big deal!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 18:17:04:
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I'm not sure about this world naked bike ride! I think it might be something for white people. Also, I don't want to see guy's penis'! I think if it were women only I would like it!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 14, 2016 18:27:29:
Hm. OK. We can talk about that. Do you have avacados?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 14, 2016 18:28:01:
I have the one avocado that you brought! I ate the rest of mine!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 12:29:00:
Helloooo honayyy!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 12:30:22:
Hey hey!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 13:18:05:
What if Warren ran with Stein?!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 13:23:21:
I love the matrix as a metaphor for the patriarchy. Not everybody is willing to be woke and if you try, people will violently fight for it, even people you love. For example engaging my dad (who considers himself a liberal) on some of these issues, I find that he is attacking me without even realizing it with his responses. He's so conditioned to defend the WSP. I don't think he even realized what he was doing and could tell he thought I was being aggressive, but I wasn't, it was actually him and his inability to hear what I had to say.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 13:35:25:
I think Shilee is Iranian!! I was looking at the womanist event and saw her last name and recognized it as sounding Iranian. So I went to get page and saw the likes Humans of Tehran!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 13:35:45:
I love to meet other Iranian women!!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 13:36:02:
I wish I could come to this event!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 13:36:02:
She's cool!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 13:37:08:
Warren is too conservative to run with the Green party.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 13:44:41:
Oh really? I didn't think she was.
I don't know if I belong in womanist circles. I feel like I offend everybody and I'm too privileged to be in them. I feel that if I was poorer, overweight, with tattoos then I could be in the group. I think people see me and think that I have too much privilege and take up too much space.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 13:45:12:
Um, they specifically invited me, so ...
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 13:45:58:
Yeah, but I think you have so much privilege that it surpasses people getting annoyed at it. I have just enough where people don't like it.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 13:46:07:
I haven't seen you offend people, honestly, and there's someone to get offended at everything.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 13:46:32:
I'm confused by that notion.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 13:55:09:
It's like you have so much that it still benefits you even in communities that are aware of it. But I think that women see me in a different way. I will go to it next time because I enjoyed the last one I went to with you.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 13:58:47:
I'm sorry to say this and invalidate your experience, but I honestly think that your lack of self confidence causes you to see yourself in an inaccurate and less capable way than what you actually are. You're really a pretty awesome person. I don't feel like you see that.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 14:03:41:
I have a hard time believing my voice should take up space in those places. I think other women probably need it more and that I annoy people by speaking up when I have too much privilege.
Other women tend to get upset when I talk because I think I adopt masculine tendencies when I'm passionate about something and I've been told I'm aggressive. The last thing I want to do is make women uncomfortable in a womanist setting. I don't even really feel like I'm a real woman. I think I'm more man than woman and rarely been accepted by other women as one of them.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 14:05:16:
You matter a lot to me. You've been through a lot too. The womanist group that I brought you to has people with plenty of privelege, honestly.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 14:06:11:
I haven't seen you invalidate someone's existence or experience.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 14:06:41:
Yeah it will probably be fine
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 14:06:45:
You also don't actually talk that much. I talk like 10x more.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 14:08:35:
And women behave in all sorts of ways. You don't have to justify yourself in the way you think. Tori takes on many "masculine" traits. Good intentions, open mind, open to criticism and solidarity are worth a lot.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 14:11:55:
Yeah, it will be fine
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 14:13:51:
I think I have more social anxiety since I've been isolated. The more I'm around people, the more comfortable I feel. Working a job helps me a lot since I interact with people all day. It should be good when I go on rotation! Hopefully I'll get a job when I get back
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 14:14:44:
Sounds good. You're an awesome person that the world should get the benefit of knowing better!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 14:25:39:
Thanks honey! Same goes for you! ����
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 15:15:01:
Would you want to go dancing tonight?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 15:20:13:
Yeah that sounds fun!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:09:28:
Before I leave to Florida I want to give you anything in my fridge so it won't get wasted!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:11:50:
Turkey is getting overthrown!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 17:16:10:
Saw that
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:17:02:
Seems like the world is falling apart
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 17:19:33:
Exciting times to be alive
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:19:51:
Hopefully whoever takes power is better, but I doubt it. I don't trust military!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:24:49:
Yeah it's exciting, as I watch it from the comfort and safety of my apartment in the cwe. However I wouldn't feel good if I were living in Turkey! It would mean stopping my education, trying to move to another country, and applying to a school in another country.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 17:25:22:
I have a friend that is from there and lives there.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:25:51:
That's nice! I hope they will be okay
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:26:26:
I wouldn't want to stay in a country when the military takes over if there's a way to get out!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 17:42:11:
What time are you free?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:46:43:
I guess it's the secular military taking over, which makes me think that western European powers were definitely involved in the coup. I would wait to think this is a good thing though.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:47:38:
I'm free now! I haven't gone to the gym, but I can go now and do squats really quick and then hangout! If you want to do work, we can do work together!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 17:47:45:
Yeah. Revolutions rarely happen without outside influence.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 17:48:40:
I need to go home for a bit, so I can do that now, and do a little laundry, put my shit together then come over.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:49:35:
Yep, I know this from what has happened in Iran!
Great!! Take your time! ��
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 17:52:43:
I'm hearing that soldiers are opening fire on protestors right now
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 19:37:36:
Hey honey! What time you think you'll come over?
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 19:56:49:
Radix House needs a chicken coop!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 19:57:46:
Chickens are so cheap and you'd have free eggs! My dad had a chicken coop when he lived in Missouri! He's looking to get another one now that Moline IL is allowing it!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 19:58:12:
My Dad and Christy are real country, salt of the earth type people.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 20:15:36:
It's been discussed. I'm on my way.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 20:16:15:
Okay see you soon! I have gas!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 20:16:53:
Bubble bath!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 15, 2016 20:27:35:
I'm ready!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 15, 2016 20:29:30:
Parked and walking towards the building.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 13:52:31:
I don't see any police outside!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 13:54:15:
Your call
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 13:54:30:
I'm outside the courthouse
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 13:55:13:
I don't remember where your car is so I'm just waiting out here
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 13:57:06:
I might come give you your keys and get an uber!
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 13:57:50:
Police are rolling in
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 13:58:03:
They're coming
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 13:59:20:
K
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 13:59:57:
Wait 30 min of you can
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 14:00:10:
Okay I'm waiting
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 14:12:24:
We're leaving
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 14:12:57:
Okay!! I'm outside on the side not facing the arch
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 14:15:40:
Conner through
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 14:16:37:
Which way are you coming out?
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 14:16:50:
Arch side
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 14:17:02:
On 4th
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 14:17:38:
There's another march coming!!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:21:57:
I think my car is fucked.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:34:43:
What's wrong? Just saw this
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:34:58:
Took a bit too start my car.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:35:23:
You should probably take it to mechanic to see what's going on
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:35:37:
Yeah ...
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:36:24:
I feel so weird about us right now. I know that you care about me, but it feels so weird probably because of whatever you're thinking about
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:37:11:
I'm sorry. I wish that I could talk to you about it.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:38:15:
Yeah, I wish you could too.
I was thinking last night when I was watching you interact with Kelly that she seems more like the type of person you would date than I do. I feel like there's something there with you two.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:38:35:
Nope
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:40:50:
She's all about you though. And she's like the essence of what you're attracted to. I believe whatever you tell me. I also know we're not exclusive so if you and her wanted to date you know that you could.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:41:18:
Look, I don't lie to you.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:42:03:
Okay, I believe you. I didn't mean to imply you're lying!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:43:47:
I'm sorry about this situation. Believe me, I wish that I could share it with you. It isn't at someone else. If I did share it though, you'd get upset at me, so this is the best that I can do. I don't want to talk about this any more. We'll be fine. This is my issue to sort out.
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:45:31:
Also, I thought the protest was winding down, but evidently, they shut down 40 West. I feel like an asshole for leaving.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:46:52:
Wow awesome!! Go them! I had to leave anyway to take Molly to Vetco. ��
To the issue, I might know what it is and I respect that you don't want to talk about it. If you want to, we can. I trust that you have my hand and I'm certain we'll be fine!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:49:21:
I don't want to talk about it. I hope that you don't know what it is.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:49:54:
Got you. Enough said! ��
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:52:15:
Bike ride should be fun!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:52:22:
I also don't think that you do know what it is.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:52:24:
I hope you have a good workout
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:52:42:
I'm skipping my workout today and napping instead.
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:52:43:
I will text you when I can head over
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 15:53:05:
Sounds good! I hope you get some good rest!
I sent the following to Adriane on Jul 16, 2016 15:58:24:
K
Adriane sent the following to me on Jul 16, 2016 17:58:38:
You might have to go without me if I don't get back in time. I don't want you to miss it because I can't come. I'm saving a lot of money by taking her here though. Only $19 for 3 yr rabies vaccine. The vet wanted to charge $160. I can't afford that